Let’s Talk About It: Living Wills
Creating a living will is an essential step in planning for the future. A living will is a legal document that outlines your wishes for medical treatment if you become incapacitated and unable to make decisions for yourself. It can include instructions regarding life-sustaining treatments, such as resuscitation, as well as end-of-life care. By creating a living will, you can ensure that your wishes are known and respected, and that you receive the care you want even if you are unable to communicate your desires.
As a doula, you may wonder why we talk about death in a childbirth class. While childbirth is a joyous occasion, it's important to acknowledge that life is unpredictable, and it's crucial to be prepared for all possibilities. Discussing death and end-of-life decisions in a childbirth class helps individuals and couples think about the broader context of their lives and consider the importance of planning for unexpected circumstances.
When making a living will, there are several important questions that you need to consider. First, you should think about the medical treatments and procedures that you do or do not want to receive if you become incapacitated. This can include decisions about resuscitation, life support, and organ donation. It's important to reflect on your values, beliefs, and personal preferences regarding medical interventions.
Another key consideration is appointing a healthcare proxy or someone who will make medical decisions on your behalf if you are unable to do so. Choose someone you trust and who understands your values and wishes. Discuss your desires with this person in advance and make sure they are willing to take on this responsibility.
Creating a living will is not a process to be taken lightly. It's recommended to consult with a lawyer or healthcare professional who is familiar with the laws and regulations in your jurisdiction. They can guide you through the process, ensuring that your living will accurately reflects your wishes and is legally binding.
Remember, your living will is a dynamic document that may need to be updated as your circumstances or preferences change. Regularly review and update it, and ensure that your loved ones, healthcare proxy, and healthcare providers are aware of its existence and contents.
By taking the time to create a living will, you are taking control of your future and ensuring that your medical wishes are respected. It provides peace of mind for both you and your loved ones, knowing that your desires will be honored even in challenging circumstances.
